1 00:00:08,980 --> 00:00:04,630 hi I'm Anne Salisbury and you can find 2 00:00:11,230 --> 00:00:08,990 me at go intuition dot-com or our school 3 00:00:18,130 --> 00:00:11,240 is that transpersonal hypnotherapy 4 00:00:21,339 --> 00:00:18,140 dot-com and today I'm fly bliss so I am 5 00:00:24,730 --> 00:00:21,349 here to share the three secrets for 6 00:00:26,650 --> 00:00:24,740 after death communication and basically 7 00:00:31,210 --> 00:00:26,660 you may ask how can I possibly know 8 00:00:33,790 --> 00:00:31,220 these secrets and I've been in private 9 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:33,800 practice since 1987 10 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:38,410 seeing clients as a clairvoyant a medium 11 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:40,730 psychotherapist and intuitive business 12 00:00:45,180 --> 00:00:42,730 consultant and I've helped people 13 00:00:48,759 --> 00:00:45,190 communicate with those on the other side 14 00:00:52,779 --> 00:00:48,769 for emotional healing and transformation 15 00:01:00,340 --> 00:00:52,789 that's what interests me the most when I 16 00:01:02,259 --> 00:01:00,350 was a child I experienced a lot that 17 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:02,269 other people around me didn't seem to 18 00:01:08,980 --> 00:01:05,450 see and when I would go upstairs at 19 00:01:11,950 --> 00:01:08,990 night to bed I would have to pass the 20 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:11,960 landing and then go up to my bedroom and 21 00:01:17,500 --> 00:01:14,690 every night I did this I would sense an 22 00:01:20,170 --> 00:01:17,510 energy there that was a woman staring 23 00:01:26,290 --> 00:01:20,180 out the back window to the park behind 24 00:01:28,540 --> 00:01:26,300 our house and that freaked me out so I 25 00:01:31,090 --> 00:01:28,550 asked my mother what about this woman 26 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:31,100 who is standing on our landing and she 27 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:36,130 said what woman so I decided okay either 28 00:01:41,890 --> 00:01:39,890 I'm strange or they're strange but 29 00:01:46,540 --> 00:01:41,900 something's not working here so I'm just 30 00:01:49,990 --> 00:01:46,550 gonna be quiet so I did my best to push 31 00:01:53,110 --> 00:01:50,000 it down and fit in but as you know you 32 00:01:56,830 --> 00:01:53,120 can't hold a ball under the water very 33 00:02:03,690 --> 00:01:56,840 long it will bounce back up so I ended 34 00:02:08,109 --> 00:02:03,700 up continuing then later to meditate and 35 00:02:12,759 --> 00:02:08,119 access those on the other side and what 36 00:02:15,050 --> 00:02:12,769 I realized was it was so important your 37 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:15,060 belief system what you believe 38 00:02:23,110 --> 00:02:19,890 right so when I was a child I believed I 39 00:02:27,110 --> 00:02:23,120 sense this energy this was scary to me 40 00:02:30,199 --> 00:02:27,120 but I didn't know how to look at it I 41 00:02:32,750 --> 00:02:30,209 questioned myself I doubted myself but 42 00:02:35,059 --> 00:02:32,760 when I get older the people at the end 43 00:02:37,309 --> 00:02:35,069 of our block they took the cannonball 44 00:02:40,309 --> 00:02:37,319 from the back of their yard they found 45 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:40,319 and they put it on a pedestal and the 46 00:02:45,770 --> 00:02:43,050 city started putting up beautiful signs 47 00:02:48,500 --> 00:02:45,780 around our neighborhood and at the park 48 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:48,510 saying this was a Civil War battlefield 49 00:02:53,630 --> 00:02:50,970 so then I put two and two together 50 00:02:56,809 --> 00:02:53,640 the women I was seeing on the landing 51 00:02:59,390 --> 00:02:56,819 was most likely it felt like somebody 52 00:03:02,600 --> 00:02:59,400 who was waiting for a loved one to 53 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:02,610 return home who had not returned home so 54 00:03:11,030 --> 00:03:07,170 you could say that my belief was it was 55 00:03:15,140 --> 00:03:11,040 strengthened by the fact that other 56 00:03:19,610 --> 00:03:15,150 people had said okay this was an area of 57 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:19,620 activity that was not very fun and that 58 00:03:23,150 --> 00:03:21,690 women I couldn't get her to talk to me I 59 00:03:25,039 --> 00:03:23,160 couldn't get her to turn around no 60 00:03:28,509 --> 00:03:25,049 matter what I did so there was a reason 61 00:03:32,930 --> 00:03:28,519 for her fixation so I looked at that 62 00:03:36,590 --> 00:03:32,940 then as the years went on and I opened 63 00:03:39,740 --> 00:03:36,600 my practice I saw a lot of people whose 64 00:03:42,830 --> 00:03:39,750 beliefs completely affected how they 65 00:03:45,590 --> 00:03:42,840 would see or access those on the other 66 00:03:49,069 --> 00:03:45,600 side so for example a couple of years 67 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:49,079 ago I had a client who really really 68 00:03:54,890 --> 00:03:52,410 wanted to believe that she could contact 69 00:03:57,949 --> 00:03:54,900 the other side so she booked a hotel 70 00:04:01,490 --> 00:03:57,959 room at the Stanley Hotel in Estes Park 71 00:04:04,879 --> 00:04:01,500 the site of Stephen King's book The 72 00:04:08,780 --> 00:04:04,889 Shining have any of you been there yeah 73 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:08,790 so you know okay so she went through the 74 00:04:15,170 --> 00:04:12,450 midnight Ghost Walk she really wanted to 75 00:04:18,229 --> 00:04:15,180 have an experience and she called me 76 00:04:21,050 --> 00:04:18,239 after that and she said it's terrible I 77 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:21,060 thought I could have an experience but I 78 00:04:26,930 --> 00:04:24,090 did not see a ghost and apparition 79 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:26,940 during that Ghost Walk so I think I'm 80 00:04:32,270 --> 00:04:29,490 just not able to do it and I said well 81 00:04:34,580 --> 00:04:32,280 tell me about your experience staying at 82 00:04:38,810 --> 00:04:34,590 the hotel what was that like it was 83 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:38,820 terrible the hotel I heard footsteps up 84 00:04:44,690 --> 00:04:41,610 and down the hall all night long 85 00:04:50,060 --> 00:04:44,700 kept me up and then the lights went on 86 00:04:54,290 --> 00:04:50,070 and up she's like that hotel I said Tina 87 00:04:56,180 --> 00:04:54,300 I'm calling her Tina Tina maybe what do 88 00:04:59,180 --> 00:04:56,190 you think if those footsteps were 89 00:05:02,150 --> 00:04:59,190 actually you connecting with somebody on 90 00:05:04,700 --> 00:05:02,160 the other side she's like hmm what about 91 00:05:07,730 --> 00:05:04,710 the electricity people on the other side 92 00:05:10,730 --> 00:05:07,740 there's able to affect the electricity a 93 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:10,740 lot she's like wow really I had an 94 00:05:15,980 --> 00:05:12,450 experience it wasn't a waste of my time 95 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:15,990 and it's like yeah you did you did great 96 00:05:25,550 --> 00:05:19,410 so she bolstered her belief in being 97 00:05:28,870 --> 00:05:25,560 able to communicate so then she said you 98 00:05:32,990 --> 00:05:28,880 know I I'm thinking back I'm thinking 99 00:05:35,630 --> 00:05:33,000 back and I said what she's like I got 100 00:05:39,020 --> 00:05:35,640 this phone call from my mother recently 101 00:05:41,840 --> 00:05:39,030 I said I thought your mother was dead 102 00:05:44,030 --> 00:05:41,850 she's like yeah yeah she's dead but I 103 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:44,040 got this phone call so help me 104 00:05:51,050 --> 00:05:49,050 understand and she said well this the 105 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:51,060 phone rang and I was thinking I was 106 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:53,370 crazy it must have been me calling my 107 00:05:57,980 --> 00:05:55,530 mother's phone number but I went back 108 00:06:01,840 --> 00:05:57,990 and checked and it was an incoming call 109 00:06:05,350 --> 00:06:01,850 and when I hit redial it went and said 110 00:06:09,230 --> 00:06:05,360 you know this line has been disconnected 111 00:06:11,180 --> 00:06:09,240 so she's like so help me understand I'm 112 00:06:13,340 --> 00:06:11,190 going crazy I wanted to talk to my 113 00:06:15,530 --> 00:06:13,350 mother do you think that could possibly 114 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:15,540 be my mother trying to contact me I'm 115 00:06:19,790 --> 00:06:18,810 like of course electricity is easy for 116 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:19,800 them right 117 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:26,250 so the second secret is contact okay so 118 00:06:32,870 --> 00:06:29,610 you can contact them and they can 119 00:06:34,159 --> 00:06:32,880 contact you you just have to be willing 120 00:06:37,190 --> 00:06:34,169 to look for the signs 121 00:06:39,650 --> 00:06:37,200 so you could say Tina thought that she 122 00:06:40,790 --> 00:06:39,660 was just nuts and you know the phone 123 00:06:42,529 --> 00:06:40,800 call whatever 124 00:06:45,649 --> 00:06:42,539 but when she reflected after she had 125 00:06:48,110 --> 00:06:45,659 more belief then she realized oh my gosh 126 00:06:50,450 --> 00:06:48,120 my mother was trying to contact me 127 00:06:53,570 --> 00:06:50,460 because at that point she was very grief 128 00:06:54,980 --> 00:06:53,580 in a lot of grief and her mother was 129 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:54,990 there to support her 130 00:07:03,529 --> 00:06:57,810 okay so then on the other side of 131 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:03,539 contact you can request contact and so 132 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:05,370 what Tina did was she's like I really 133 00:07:09,110 --> 00:07:07,289 really really want to talk to my mother 134 00:07:11,390 --> 00:07:09,120 more now that I'm feeling better about 135 00:07:13,999 --> 00:07:11,400 myself how can I do this I think what 136 00:07:17,110 --> 00:07:14,009 I'm gonna do is go to the cemetery where 137 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:17,120 her plot is so she went with her sister 138 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:20,250 they took a picture when they got when 139 00:07:25,670 --> 00:07:22,050 they looked at the photo they saw this 140 00:07:29,930 --> 00:07:25,680 beautiful light coming in from nowhere 141 00:07:31,939 --> 00:07:29,940 land over on top of the grave and then 142 00:07:34,700 --> 00:07:31,949 another photo there was a beautiful orb 143 00:07:36,589 --> 00:07:34,710 there and she's like oh my gosh do you 144 00:07:40,010 --> 00:07:36,599 think this could be real and it's like 145 00:07:41,779 --> 00:07:40,020 yes this is real that light because we 146 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:41,789 photographed them too we photographed 147 00:07:49,969 --> 00:07:46,050 orbs that was contact that was her 148 00:07:52,459 --> 00:07:49,979 mother wanting her to know it's okay so 149 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:52,469 that's the second secret or key element 150 00:07:59,870 --> 00:07:55,650 to connecting with the other side the 151 00:08:03,740 --> 00:07:59,880 third is help okay so a lot of people 152 00:08:05,839 --> 00:08:03,750 come saying I would like to talk to my 153 00:08:08,629 --> 00:08:05,849 mother let's say on the other side 154 00:08:11,869 --> 00:08:08,639 because I understand that I have a bunch 155 00:08:13,909 --> 00:08:11,879 of guides I'm supposed to have guides so 156 00:08:18,140 --> 00:08:13,919 why isn't my mother kicking in and being 157 00:08:21,439 --> 00:08:18,150 my guide now and or why aren't they why 158 00:08:25,219 --> 00:08:21,449 aren't they contacting me so a couple of 159 00:08:29,059 --> 00:08:25,229 years ago had a client who came saying 160 00:08:33,260 --> 00:08:29,069 my daughter just died well she died two 161 00:08:36,290 --> 00:08:33,270 years ago and the issue is that I really 162 00:08:38,089 --> 00:08:36,300 want to talk to my daughter and I am 163 00:08:39,860 --> 00:08:38,099 feeling like something's wrong with me 164 00:08:43,699 --> 00:08:39,870 because my goddaughter has not contacted 165 00:08:50,810 --> 00:08:43,709 me when she was alive we talked to all 166 00:08:58,070 --> 00:08:53,860 and I don't understand something's wrong 167 00:09:02,750 --> 00:08:58,080 so I talked to her daughter we'll call 168 00:09:04,910 --> 00:09:02,760 her sue the daughter and I said you know 169 00:09:08,540 --> 00:09:04,920 what show me where you are what's 170 00:09:12,680 --> 00:09:08,550 happening and Sue showed me this image 171 00:09:16,190 --> 00:09:12,690 of floating over like a freeway a little 172 00:09:18,770 --> 00:09:16,200 freeway and so I asked her mother we'll 173 00:09:21,110 --> 00:09:18,780 call her Sally Sally this is what she's 174 00:09:23,660 --> 00:09:21,120 showing me why did that how does that 175 00:09:27,260 --> 00:09:23,670 make sense for you and she said well she 176 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:27,270 died in a car accident I said okay well 177 00:09:31,300 --> 00:09:30,090 when I look at her she doesn't know 178 00:09:33,860 --> 00:09:31,310 she's dead 179 00:09:37,010 --> 00:09:33,870 so there's a reason she has not 180 00:09:38,900 --> 00:09:37,020 contacted you so would you like to help 181 00:09:42,740 --> 00:09:38,910 her wake up a little bit on the other 182 00:09:46,310 --> 00:09:42,750 side and Sally's like yes so we worked 183 00:09:49,820 --> 00:09:46,320 with her daughter we allowed her to kind 184 00:09:52,850 --> 00:09:49,830 of realize okay you're dead and here you 185 00:09:53,900 --> 00:09:52,860 can contact your mom like this and by 186 00:09:57,290 --> 00:09:53,910 the end of the session they were 187 00:09:58,190 --> 00:09:57,300 communicating life was good and so you 188 00:10:00,020 --> 00:09:58,200 could say that 189 00:10:03,020 --> 00:10:00,030 Sally helped her daughter on the other 190 00:10:05,090 --> 00:10:03,030 side by waking up by recognizing her 191 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:05,100 situation and that she could alter it 192 00:10:12,050 --> 00:10:08,970 and then by sue saying to her mom mom 193 00:10:15,170 --> 00:10:12,060 I'm okay I'm sorry I didn't contact you 194 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:15,180 the last two years I didn't realize I 195 00:10:20,030 --> 00:10:17,370 was dead basically so how would I know 196 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:20,040 to tell you something I was just in 197 00:10:28,790 --> 00:10:24,930 stasis then there was another client had 198 00:10:31,190 --> 00:10:28,800 recently who will call her Patricia she 199 00:10:33,590 --> 00:10:31,200 wanted to talk to a friend who had died 200 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:33,600 after a long-term illness all she wanted 201 00:10:40,670 --> 00:10:36,930 to know was is he okay when I checked in 202 00:10:43,100 --> 00:10:40,680 with him he was just floating in the 203 00:10:46,850 --> 00:10:43,110 void it's you could see it like deep 204 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:46,860 darkness and it had the feeling to me 205 00:10:50,330 --> 00:10:49,650 that he had created this reality through 206 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:50,340 his beliefs 207 00:10:56,870 --> 00:10:54,210 so I said Patricia do you think your 208 00:10:58,820 --> 00:10:56,880 friend bill might have been an atheist 209 00:11:01,880 --> 00:10:58,830 do you know anything about his religious 210 00:11:03,759 --> 00:11:01,890 beliefs and not that it matters but he 211 00:11:05,319 --> 00:11:03,769 has created a void for himself 212 00:11:08,019 --> 00:11:05,329 which means he didn't have a 213 00:11:11,379 --> 00:11:08,029 preconceived notion of what he wanted to 214 00:11:15,669 --> 00:11:11,389 create so he created this she's like yes 215 00:11:17,290 --> 00:11:15,679 he was cantankerous he was only gonna 216 00:11:18,729 --> 00:11:17,300 talk you know believe in what he 217 00:11:21,189 --> 00:11:18,739 believed himself nobody was going to 218 00:11:23,019 --> 00:11:21,199 tell him what to do I said great well 219 00:11:26,949 --> 00:11:23,029 would you like to help build because 220 00:11:28,889 --> 00:11:26,959 he's just kind of hovering there and he 221 00:11:32,829 --> 00:11:28,899 might want to know he has some options 222 00:11:35,319 --> 00:11:32,839 so she said yes so we mentioned to Bill 223 00:11:37,689 --> 00:11:35,329 hey Bill I wonder if you were to look 224 00:11:41,079 --> 00:11:37,699 around you if you might see any light 225 00:11:43,329 --> 00:11:41,089 anywhere could there possibly be some 226 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:43,339 and he goes yeah there is some up there 227 00:11:48,609 --> 00:11:46,730 and then we said okay bill so you have 228 00:11:51,759 --> 00:11:48,619 the option you can stay in this darkness 229 00:11:53,949 --> 00:11:51,769 or you can alter it a little bit if you 230 00:11:56,489 --> 00:11:53,959 want to by bringing in some more light 231 00:11:59,319 --> 00:11:56,499 so he decided he'd bring in some light 232 00:12:01,509 --> 00:11:59,329 then we said okay bill what else do you 233 00:12:03,789 --> 00:12:01,519 want to do this is your reality you get 234 00:12:05,859 --> 00:12:03,799 to design it what do you want so he 235 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:05,869 brought in some trees he brought in some 236 00:12:09,489 --> 00:12:07,610 grass he brought in a comfortable chair 237 00:12:12,730 --> 00:12:09,499 he wanted to sit down and then he was 238 00:12:14,850 --> 00:12:12,740 able to chat so then he was able to talk 239 00:12:17,410 --> 00:12:14,860 to his friend and there was 240 00:12:20,350 --> 00:12:17,420 communication there was healing and it 241 00:12:22,389 --> 00:12:20,360 was wonderful so basically what I found 242 00:12:23,590 --> 00:12:22,399 over the years is if you can concentrate 243 00:12:27,549 --> 00:12:23,600 on these three things 244 00:12:31,329 --> 00:12:27,559 so that is belief if you can look at 245 00:12:34,660 --> 00:12:31,339 your beliefs like have a notebook by 246 00:12:37,059 --> 00:12:34,670 your bed and write down tonight I would 247 00:12:39,429 --> 00:12:37,069 like to talk to myself my higher wisdom 248 00:12:42,730 --> 00:12:39,439 about my beliefs I would like to examine 249 00:12:45,489 --> 00:12:42,740 them and let your dreams bring you some 250 00:12:48,699 --> 00:12:45,499 information about you then you can also 251 00:12:51,789 --> 00:12:48,709 write down I'd like to talk to my loved 252 00:12:54,759 --> 00:12:51,799 one my mom whatever and I've had this 253 00:12:58,030 --> 00:12:54,769 specific question so you write down I 254 00:13:00,639 --> 00:12:58,040 would like to know what my mom is doing 255 00:13:04,509 --> 00:13:00,649 on the other side right now and then let 256 00:13:07,090 --> 00:13:04,519 your dream bring it to you one drawback 257 00:13:09,759 --> 00:13:07,100 can be is if you think that by you 258 00:13:13,389 --> 00:13:09,769 writing it that day that they are going 259 00:13:16,950 --> 00:13:13,399 to respond that night they may not they 260 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:16,960 may be busy because remember the 261 00:13:23,250 --> 00:13:19,930 client Tina her mom literally picked up 262 00:13:25,050 --> 00:13:23,260 the phone and called her but Tina didn't 263 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:25,060 know to answer 264 00:13:30,540 --> 00:13:27,730 Tina thought it was a freaky thing so 265 00:13:32,610 --> 00:13:30,550 Tina didn't answer well a lot of times 266 00:13:35,250 --> 00:13:32,620 when you called at the other side they 267 00:13:37,500 --> 00:13:35,260 can be busy too sometimes they'll pick 268 00:13:39,450 --> 00:13:37,510 up an answer sometimes they'll answer 269 00:13:41,820 --> 00:13:39,460 you next week next month next year 270 00:13:44,790 --> 00:13:41,830 whatever but you just have to believe in 271 00:13:53,580 --> 00:13:44,800 yourself that it's possible and set that 272 00:13:57,870 --> 00:13:53,590 up so does this make sense to you all 273 00:14:01,470 --> 00:13:57,880 because if you have the belief and if 274 00:14:05,340 --> 00:14:01,480 you know that contact is possible from 275 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:05,350 them to you from you to them and that 276 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:08,130 you can help them on the other side and 277 00:14:16,500 --> 00:14:12,010 they can help you then your life can be 278 00:14:19,350 --> 00:14:16,510 so much richer and I'm in this business 279 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:19,360 because I love seeing people transform 280 00:14:26,580 --> 00:14:23,770 and when they do their lives it's it's 281 00:14:29,460 --> 00:14:26,590 like a bigger community you could say 282 00:14:32,010 --> 00:14:29,470 it's not just those of us sitting in 283 00:14:34,470 --> 00:14:32,020 this room that are in physical bodies we 284 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:34,480 have such a huge community to play with 285 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:38,290 and it's a wonderful thing now one 286 00:14:47,100 --> 00:14:42,370 caveat is when you are dialing your 287 00:14:49,650 --> 00:14:47,110 loved one you want to make sure you dial 288 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:49,660 the right number right so in other words 289 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:52,810 you don't want to just say hey I'm I'm 290 00:14:58,140 --> 00:14:55,450 dialing the ethers to talk to whoever's 291 00:15:01,050 --> 00:14:58,150 out there because if you've got you know 292 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:01,060 Uncle Jack and you want to talk to Uncle 293 00:15:07,110 --> 00:15:04,210 Jack but you're like Jack or any Jack 294 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:07,120 I'll talk to any Jack any Jack could be 295 00:15:11,430 --> 00:15:09,370 the guy who's now living at the federal 296 00:15:13,710 --> 00:15:11,440 penitentiary or who used to live there 297 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:13,720 and now is on the other side you may not 298 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:15,730 want to talk to him so you want to be 299 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:19,090 specific and and then you want to hold 300 00:15:37,030 --> 00:15:21,850 yourself in love and that's what I found 301 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:40,400 good question how do you reconcile these 302 00:15:51,050 --> 00:15:47,850 three steps with religious beliefs so as 303 00:15:53,210 --> 00:15:51,060 you saw religious beliefs basically 304 00:15:58,819 --> 00:15:53,220 structure what your reality is like 305 00:16:01,490 --> 00:15:58,829 right so when you so this is my 306 00:16:04,550 --> 00:16:01,500 experience and somebody who is religious 307 00:16:07,749 --> 00:16:04,560 super super religious we'll probably not 308 00:16:12,230 --> 00:16:07,759 call me unless they're super desperate 309 00:16:16,220 --> 00:16:12,240 so but I have still had people who are 310 00:16:18,170 --> 00:16:16,230 quite religious be fine because they if 311 00:16:21,170 --> 00:16:18,180 they can see how their beliefs affect 312 00:16:23,509 --> 00:16:21,180 their reality and if they only believe 313 00:16:27,319 --> 00:16:23,519 that you go to heaven you play a harp 314 00:16:31,819 --> 00:16:27,329 and that's that then they may not be as 315 00:16:33,559 --> 00:16:31,829 open to hearing right the options on the 316 00:16:35,900 --> 00:16:33,569 other side are that you can create your 317 00:16:40,850 --> 00:16:35,910 options so their beliefs are going to 318 00:16:42,740 --> 00:16:40,860 totally affect it but then if they're 319 00:16:45,410 --> 00:16:42,750 hurting and they want to connect you see 320 00:16:54,430 --> 00:16:45,420 their mom motivated to make some shifts 321 00:17:01,840 --> 00:16:58,150 is pretty easy if that's the case why 322 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:01,850 can't they write a letter why can't they 323 00:17:10,899 --> 00:17:06,970 use Morse code with the lights you know 324 00:17:13,870 --> 00:17:10,909 turning them on ma why why is why is the 325 00:17:15,789 --> 00:17:13,880 communication so foggy what can be made 326 00:17:22,449 --> 00:17:15,799 more clearer thinking physically 327 00:17:30,580 --> 00:17:22,459 manifest what's happening is working 328 00:17:36,100 --> 00:17:30,590 with something called a cell phone great 329 00:17:37,539 --> 00:17:36,110 question so it is kind of like in this 330 00:17:39,669 --> 00:17:37,549 world you've got some people who are 331 00:17:44,549 --> 00:17:39,679 excellent at mathematics and some people 332 00:17:49,120 --> 00:17:44,559 who are excellent at art right so you 333 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:49,130 for example when my mother died she a 334 00:17:56,680 --> 00:17:52,730 couple of days later she came to me and 335 00:18:01,180 --> 00:17:56,690 woke me up and she got in my face and 336 00:18:03,549 --> 00:18:01,190 she said are you in there and she scared 337 00:18:05,620 --> 00:18:03,559 the bejesus out of me and I have made an 338 00:18:07,419 --> 00:18:05,630 agreement with her before she left to 339 00:18:10,090 --> 00:18:07,429 communicate with her on the other side 340 00:18:12,460 --> 00:18:10,100 and I expected her to recuperate for a 341 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:12,470 while you know but I did not expect this 342 00:18:19,899 --> 00:18:16,490 so when she came at me like that she was 343 00:18:22,659 --> 00:18:19,909 using all the energy she had to express 344 00:18:25,690 --> 00:18:22,669 to me now my belief was open I was 345 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:25,700 waiting and willing to see her she knew 346 00:18:29,730 --> 00:18:27,530 she wanted to do this so there was 347 00:18:32,710 --> 00:18:29,740 motivation and intention on both sides 348 00:18:36,460 --> 00:18:32,720 but it was a challenge for her after 349 00:18:39,100 --> 00:18:36,470 that she rang the doorbell she put off 350 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:39,110 her smoke alarms she did a variety of 351 00:18:45,190 --> 00:18:42,850 things perfume in the air but it takes a 352 00:18:47,380 --> 00:18:45,200 you know let's say the person on the 353 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:47,390 other side if they don't know that they 354 00:18:52,570 --> 00:18:49,730 can contact you a lot of them are 355 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:52,580 walking in a fog and so they're not 356 00:18:58,200 --> 00:18:56,570 motivated to do it some ghosts are 357 00:19:02,110 --> 00:18:58,210 motivated because they're up to no good 358 00:19:04,450 --> 00:19:02,120 but your loved one sometimes they're so 359 00:19:06,250 --> 00:19:04,460 subtle like it can be a thought it can 360 00:19:06,710 --> 00:19:06,260 be just like a wisp of a thought through 361 00:19:08,870 --> 00:19:06,720 your mom 362 00:19:10,190 --> 00:19:08,880 and you're thinking I wonder why I had 363 00:19:11,750 --> 00:19:10,200 that thought that's so weird 364 00:19:15,710 --> 00:19:11,760 that's your loved one so you want to 365 00:19:17,659 --> 00:19:15,720 look for the subtle signs yes thank you 366 00:19:22,539 --> 00:19:17,669 and for your sharing your methodology 367 00:19:26,450 --> 00:19:22,549 forward to reading your book to say by 368 00:19:29,990 --> 00:19:26,460 stating that I am to survive many years 369 00:19:31,580 --> 00:19:30,000 and communication I think that these 370 00:19:33,590 --> 00:19:31,590 types of unmediated 371 00:19:35,419 --> 00:19:33,600 experiences are the strongest ones of 372 00:19:39,380 --> 00:19:35,429 the often the most evidently she wants 373 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:39,390 to sort out but maybe not know and the 374 00:19:45,500 --> 00:19:43,610 communication and going back to Julie's 375 00:19:49,190 --> 00:19:45,510 presentation about the importance of 376 00:19:50,779 --> 00:19:49,200 language and how we describe events in 377 00:19:52,070 --> 00:19:50,789 this field and the fact that there's 378 00:19:53,899 --> 00:19:52,080 energy and vibration and all this 379 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:53,909 terminology that has very different 380 00:19:59,750 --> 00:19:57,450 meanings I would just caution that in my 381 00:20:03,430 --> 00:19:59,760 experience of setting physical phenomena 382 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:03,440 over the past 25 years I think the 383 00:20:10,159 --> 00:20:06,570 relationship between a spirit and these 384 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:10,169 physical effects is pretty tenuous in 385 00:20:14,149 --> 00:20:11,970 terms of cause and effect I don't think 386 00:20:15,710 --> 00:20:14,159 that the problem is we don't know the 387 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:15,720 language enough that once people buy 388 00:20:18,740 --> 00:20:17,610 into the fact that there is survival 389 00:20:22,279 --> 00:20:18,750 there is life after death the spirit 390 00:20:25,340 --> 00:20:22,289 communication they jump to the 391 00:20:28,740 --> 00:20:25,350 conclusion that his spirit is actually 392 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:28,750 when the language I think and we really 393 00:20:33,590 --> 00:20:30,250 lack the language the language should be 394 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:33,600 more that spirit is taking advantage of 395 00:20:39,590 --> 00:20:37,090 circumstances where human living beings 396 00:20:42,540 --> 00:20:39,600 are able to provide the energy as in 397 00:20:51,780 --> 00:20:42,550 spiritual circles or creation of a 398 00:21:04,880 --> 00:20:51,790 poltergeist that's the language we just 399 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:09,060 that's great I'm not a scientist so I 400 00:21:15,210 --> 00:21:13,210 just help people heal emotionally I do 401 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:15,220 know though that when I gave a talk 402 00:21:21,390 --> 00:21:19,210 about a year and a half ago and the 403 00:21:24,930 --> 00:21:21,400 gentleman in the audience was wanting to 404 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:24,940 talk to his beloved wife who died and he 405 00:21:31,530 --> 00:21:28,570 said she brings me dimes to know that 406 00:21:33,780 --> 00:21:31,540 I'm that she's okay and he said they 407 00:21:35,310 --> 00:21:33,790 appear on the street you know they're 408 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:35,320 pure wherever so you could say oh yeah 409 00:21:39,660 --> 00:21:37,450 he's just seeing as times it's 410 00:21:43,410 --> 00:21:39,670 meaningless he's just putting meaning to 411 00:21:47,310 --> 00:21:43,420 it but after that talk within minutes I 412 00:21:51,150 --> 00:21:47,320 walked out of the room and a dime fell 413 00:21:54,390 --> 00:21:51,160 from the ethers hit my toe and clinked 414 00:21:56,700 --> 00:21:54,400 on this pavement in front of me and I'm 415 00:21:58,380 --> 00:21:56,710 like holy cow I've never been paid by 416 00:21:58,980 --> 00:21:58,390 spirit before you know this is pretty 417 00:22:02,460 --> 00:21:58,990 cool 418 00:22:04,650 --> 00:22:02,470 and and so then I asked and she said I 419 00:22:07,260 --> 00:22:04,660 just wanted you to know how important it 420 00:22:09,900 --> 00:22:07,270 was for me that you talked to my husband 421 00:22:12,510 --> 00:22:09,910 and helped him today so I got that 422 00:22:16,110 --> 00:22:12,520 message intuitively you could take it 423 00:22:20,580 --> 00:22:16,120 however you like but for me I thought 424 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:20,590 that was pretty cool and so I just I'm 425 00:22:27,650 --> 00:22:23,170 not the scientist so that's up to others 426 00:22:32,460 --> 00:22:30,330 experience being so direct again I think 427 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:32,470 it's probably a human effect that's 428 00:22:59,340 --> 00:22:55,890 I wonder on safety questions I wondered 429 00:23:03,270 --> 00:22:59,350 if the recently departed have kind of a 430 00:23:05,490 --> 00:23:03,280 stronger resonance than someone who say 431 00:23:06,780 --> 00:23:05,500 has been dead for perhaps a decade or 432 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:06,790 long or something like that it's 433 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:08,770 something that I felt like I may have 434 00:23:13,740 --> 00:23:10,930 noticed when I've attempted to 435 00:23:15,900 --> 00:23:13,750 communicate with the recently departed 436 00:23:22,350 --> 00:23:15,910 loved ones that it seems like the signal 437 00:23:25,860 --> 00:23:22,360 is stronger and the second part of my 438 00:23:28,700 --> 00:23:25,870 question was do you recommend any tools 439 00:23:31,740 --> 00:23:28,710 of any kind for example automatic 440 00:23:36,250 --> 00:23:31,750 writing or using boards of any kind like 441 00:23:42,120 --> 00:23:39,020 [Music] 442 00:23:44,460 --> 00:23:42,130 okay so I agree those who are more 443 00:23:46,230 --> 00:23:44,470 recently departed depending upon the 444 00:23:49,650 --> 00:23:46,240 situation again remember there was that 445 00:23:51,510 --> 00:23:49,660 one client who had the friend who was 446 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:51,520 her daughter who didn't even know she 447 00:23:54,870 --> 00:23:53,170 was dead yet right so then they go 448 00:23:56,430 --> 00:23:54,880 through kind of a recuperation phase on 449 00:23:58,260 --> 00:23:56,440 the other side so if they're involved in 450 00:24:01,350 --> 00:23:58,270 that it may not be as direct a 451 00:24:04,530 --> 00:24:01,360 communication for awhile but I would say 452 00:24:06,900 --> 00:24:04,540 yes you find the energy dissipates over 453 00:24:10,140 --> 00:24:06,910 time particularly if let's say they've 454 00:24:11,970 --> 00:24:10,150 taken their energy and incarnated into 455 00:24:14,220 --> 00:24:11,980 another physical body or created another 456 00:24:16,260 --> 00:24:14,230 physical experience for themselves so 457 00:24:21,660 --> 00:24:16,270 they're less available on the other side 458 00:24:23,670 --> 00:24:21,670 I found that as for tools we've written 459 00:24:26,130 --> 00:24:23,680 three books that are at the back there's 460 00:24:30,360 --> 00:24:26,140 some tools in the back some exercises I 461 00:24:34,830 --> 00:24:30,370 highly recommend dreamwork because if 462 00:24:36,780 --> 00:24:34,840 you can write a question and then ask 463 00:24:39,690 --> 00:24:36,790 for the dream and then the next 464 00:24:44,010 --> 00:24:39,700 write it down then they know oh he's 465 00:24:47,310 --> 00:24:44,020 open to receiving right so then you've 466 00:24:49,790 --> 00:24:47,320 opened the communication but again the 467 00:24:51,900 --> 00:24:49,800 more you do it I wouldn't recommend 468 00:24:53,550 --> 00:24:51,910 Ouija boards or things because again 469 00:24:55,650 --> 00:24:53,560 then you're opening up to god-knows-what 470 00:25:01,980 --> 00:24:55,660 and you want to keep it specific and 471 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:01,990 held in love that's my experience thank